Do I need to be more patient? I need a clever tactic.?

One month ago, I met someone that I really like through my close circle of friends. I was invited by my guy friend to spend a week long trip in the countryside with him and his friend. It was strictly platonic. During this trip and I will say it was one of the best vacations of all time - upon leaving I realized I started taking a genuine liking to one of the guys whom I spent more quality time with. Upon arriving home, I started talking to this guy (we live in the same city) and its been close to a month now of non-stop texting. We have also hung out twice, making out seriously both times and cuddling well into the next, late afternoon. He is very affectionate, holding me throughout the night and I have no question when I am with him, that we clearly like each other a lot. What perplexes me the most however, is his communication skills and frankly, he doesn't pursue me the way I am use to. This could be a positive thing in the long run. He is confident, but is know for being shy with girls. Also, let it be known that he smokes tons of weed. He hasn't called me yet, he is an insistent texter and it has been 13 days since I last saw him, although we talk everyday. He did ask if I wanted to hang out a few days ago but then dropped the ball. Everyone is different and everyone has something to work on or improve. To me the important qualities are in place enough for me to get to know him better - I just get stumped along the way in the beginning and maintaining my cool. So my question is - do I just need to be patient? What would be a clever tactic I could offer this new relationship without seeming like the pursuer? Thank you, Victoria