Ive been distancing myself from him, my phone is off. I dont understand him. Is he a jerk or what!?

I met this guy were both single but we casually talk almost everyday for 2 months now.Text , phone, im. Weve only gone out once, he works fulltime and coaches a team after. I think hes all about that. He was a lot more cool in the start but now Im starting to have 2nd thoughts. I've never had a bf no and Im in no hurry to.He says hes in no hurry either but the flirting lately has been getting on my nerves. I let him know aswell I always speak my mind. Ive said I liked him but he wont exactly say he likes me back. Instead he'll give little hints and play tricks . I dont know what hes trying to do now. Make me jealous? hurt me? but he'll talk about girls and how they like him text him blow kisses at him during work to me. I think thats wrong.Hes a big joker, He tends to be really y. That attitude gets in the way when Im being serious. He tells me how much he's over hes ex gf but he still IMs her. Im so confused. I dono what he wants. He wont admit he needs me but has 2 tlk 2 me.